Note to Elf: November 2010

Sunday 28 November 2010

Where's the Geneva Convention of love?

Sorry about the crappy title. Just go with me on this one.

“I think he really loves her too,” said a well meaning friend, as if tht statement explained or justified his part in the affair, or that in some bizarre way I should feel sorry for him, or empathise with him during this difficult period.

Well fuck off I don’t.

Should we be telling the Aborigines, that we understand that they are sad about losing their land and their culture, but that white people really love Australia too. Would we then expect them to turn around and say, “Oh, well that changes everything, please feel free to shaft us in perpetuity”? No we wouldn’t.

Do we expect the relatives of the Americans blown up on September 11^th to really give a shit about the suffering their leaders may or may not have inflicted on the Middle East thanks to their decades long foreign policy of meddling in the internal affairs of so-called Third World countries? Do we expect them to accept, the resentments of the people affected by this policy as a justification for the killing of their families and friends. Of course not...

Just because somebody loves something or wants something that doesn’t give them the right to take it. We all know that we all know that there are rules about right and wrong but..

Sure, we talk about all parties seeing things from all sides, and we call for reasoned understanding, but we don’t really expect it. We know that blood lust is going to rule, that hatreds will be handed down from generation to generation, because when you attack someone...

We end friendships with close friends because they returned a favorite book late or with the cover torn. We fine people and lock them up for stealing teh most petty things yet we regard infidelity – the stealing of trust, surely the most dear thing we have – as something less than that.

We expect the injured parties in those cases to be understanding, to forgive. “do you think you’ll remanin friends we ask?” I mean really. The only reason people stay friends after a relationship is because one or both of them thinks in the back of their minds that there might b the chance of a reconcilliatoin or a t least another shag. Freindship between exlovers on any othe rbasis than that is sick, as is any attempt by the injured party in a love triangle to understand or make some sort of contact with the interloper.

There should be a l aw which locks people up for adultery.

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There is no Geneva convention when it comes to love, or to put it bluntly there are no rules in love and war. But there should be.

There should be many rules.

We lock people up for the most trivial offences against our finances and our property but we don’t do a damn thing about those who injure our hearts.

You can lie to your partner and cheat behind his back for months, and get away scot free, even though you’ve probably caused him more pain than anyone else possibly could, but that’s not a crime. Yet going round to her new boyfriend’s place, the guy with whom she had the affair and chopping off his hand with a lightsaber is.

I don’t get it.

Sunday 21 November 2010

Nothing to say

sometimes I sit here in front of this blog and I feel like I really want to write something but I can't think of anything to say. everything i think of sounds so boring.

I wanted to post a clip of the song Nothing Ever Happens on Mars from the film Waiting for Guffman, bu the tight arses in Guffmanland won't let me embed it. Here's the link if you want to look at it. It's hilarious.

Nothing ever happens in Brunswick either. Does thsi blogging help or does it just fuel the drama in my head? Sometimes I feel so good and then: kablooey I'm right back in miserytown again. I wonder if there's a connection between the words miser and misery. They're both concerned with hanging on to stuff yuo ought to be sharing or at least talking about with others. Maybe I'm being miserly wth my misery, which after all, as teh saying goes, loves company. Should I be sharing this crap. Am I sharing it here on this blog, which no one ever reads? or does teh fact that I know no one ever reads it negate any possible benefit I might derive from having shared it. MAybe I should actually talk to someone. I could talk to Dan, but he'sso caught up in IVF land and with this sitcom, pus he's a fuckenlawyer for chrissakes - do I want to talk to a lawyer about how I feel? Maybe I should just go to bed? It is 5 am and last night's shift was a killer. We were a staff memebr down and being manager that menat I didn't get a break. 8 hours straight of full on punters. PLus I'm seeing double. Not sure if that's fatige or vodka.

Then there are soem things I want to write about in here that I just don't, because I'm afraid that someone will actualy read them.So I guess that means I'm not sharing my feelings and what not after all, not all of them any way, and probably not theo nesthat mater. Wow, that last phrase 'theo nestat mater' sounds like a Latin Motto. Should be on a crest. I wonder if it means something. I wonder if I coud have a motto on this blog. Signing off now to find out.

Friday 12 November 2010

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Thursday 11 November 2010

Post melbourne Cup melt down part 2

Do JB still sell cassettes? Do they still sell cassette players? I wish I could make a mix tape of all this stuff. I suppose I could make a play list but it just doesn't seem to have the same romance. I'd like a turntable some vinyl and a tapedeck please santa.

Thursday 4 November 2010

Post Melbourne Cup melt down

Mental long weekend at work. I'm shagged. Today is a couch, remote control, Big M and Tim Tam kinda day. iPod's stuffed. Wish Rage was on. Thank God for Youtube. Some of me faves...

Same as it ever was. Looks a bit like David Tennant as Dr Who.Love this song.

Another Dr Who - Tom Baker with blond hair?

This one has nothing to do with Dr Who.

I don't know why this one is so small

Never though I'd hear this song live.

Monday 1 November 2010

why do women always buy their drinks separately?

Why don't they go in shouts? And why do they always have to pay with the exact change? And why is it always in 5 cent pieces? Souldn't be blogging at work but then what are mobil phones for?